"You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to."
People speak so much about how bad times end up teaching you good stuff. Like how to see the positive in negative, and how can you improve yourself and face it? But let's face it. Bad times suck!
When bad things happen to you, you are first into an acceptance stage. A stage where you don't understand what the hell happened and what it means to you. After that, comes the dreading part. The part where it hurts like glasses thrown at you. This is where you can say the realisation kicks in.
The problem now is that you don't know how to approach things anymore. Last time you did it that way, you ended here. One by one, you go back to how it came there. How everything went bad and what you missed. Then one by one you correct yourself. You can't undo the past, but now you don't repeat those mistakes.
It's painful, these bad times. But even though people call it learning, it really is just a though experience, yet, now you r better off to start a new beginning, because this time, you won't miss out the things you missed last time.
