The concept of love appears to be fragile sometimes. The part where you fall in love the first sight just because they are attractive is so shallow.
Love has so many layers to it, that we often forget the simplest thing which makes us believe it truly exists.
The idea of love has always been an essential step, which is "friendship." You don't know a person completely until you are a companion- a friend.
When a person understands your silence, there is comfort even when you both are just sitting and zoning out from the present moment, living in a different world which has it's own dimensions. It is only because you are friends, they don't ask questions. They already know you.
We love people who don't judge things we do. Wearing those red pants on a bright day, going blonde because your favorite character just got blonde, going back to that toxic ex for the 50th time, never ever returning money and so on. It is only when you get to that level of bonding, they
start residing in that particular special place of your heart which cannot be replaced.
Love was never about looks, the way they dress up or the way they talk. The whole and sole reason you feel that warm feeling is because you are comfortable, you know this person has no judgment to offer but always their shoulder to cry on.
Isn't this what you need in a soulmate?
