Hey
Loving urself means loving every aspect of yourself, even the not-so-good parts. At times, u r so busy loving the ppl around u, u just forget what it's like to love urself. Love urself before u love anyone around u. Learn to accept the flaws u have rather than regretting of having those. It's like we filter our lives to fit into other people's ideas of who we are supposed to b. Accept urself for who u r.
Don't let ppl's judgement change u into a person u never wanted to b. Don't change urself for keeping a bond with a particular person. Because one day they'll leave and u'll miss the old u. Get your priority list set and make sure, you keep yourself on the top of it. The more u love yourself, the less u'll b hurt. Don't blame urself for things u didn't do. Don't hate urself. Talk to urself as u would do to someone u love.
U have to give urself the power to shine and love urself as u r, unconditionally. It's alright if u've committed certain mistakes. It's a part of u, accept it. U've learnt ur lesson. Forgive urself for accepting less than u deserved. It's okay if ppl don't accept u for who u r. Sometimes u've got to b selfish. Sometimes u've got to put urself first. U've got to be aware that u r rare.
Be urself, no matter how many tough situations you go through. In the end, you'll be proud of yourself and u'll love yourself a bit more. Loving urself first will alwys work as a miracle in ur life.
